
In her book, Finding Your Own North Star
, Martha Beck asks her readers to answer 25 questions with often, sometimes, rarely, or never. The questions are:
1. My life feels like a great adventure.
2. I feel sure I can solve any problem I encounter.
3. I have fun.
4. I laugh out loud.
5. I am overwhelmed with gratitude.
6 I spend time in comfortable solitude.
7. I am fascinated by things I am learning
8. I feel deeply understood.
9. Things just seem to work out for me.
10. I get so involved in projects I forget to stop.
11. I use my imagination.
12. I do things I loved when I was a kid.
13. People seem to enjoy being around me.
14. I play.
15. I feel perfectly safe.
16. I get excited when it is time to go to work.
17. I feel mentally sharp and alert.
18. I have really cool ideas.
19. I love my body.
20. I'm flooded with love for other people.
21. I do new things, or old things in new ways.
22. I do what I want to, even if it's scary.
23. I'm completely relaxed with other people.
24. I feel intense physical pleasure.
25. I am very pleased with myself in general.
She writes that if you didn't anwer"often" to every one of the questions. you stand to be in closer contact with your essential self.